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Identify an potentially bad idea 6/23/2021
I just want to alert the women here.
I met someone on this site, who seemed like a sweet, sane
person. He has a very popular profile, and has many regular
visitors to his pages. Initially, I felt pretty honored
that he found me attractive. We had a couple of dates, and
a lot of email and texting. Due to problems with schedules and proximity, this relationship
did not work out for me. I ...
18 Comments, 813 Views,
63 Votes
,7.81 Score |
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Large Marge was hungry for me...and I was scared 6/19/2021
When I was 22 I met a woman on yahoo. She went by the name Nona.
Now Nona claimed to be 35, single, living alone, etc. Her
profile had said that "Nona loves roses". We
talked for a bit, mainly me talking dirty and her humoring
me. She was even kind enough to send me almost a dozen pictures
of herself in various positions, some with clothes, some
without. I was convinced that Nona was my ...
15 Comments, 761 Views,
54 Votes
,7.81 Score |
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Hypocrits or sore losers? 6/22/2021
I consider myself to be semi attractive and pretty damn
nice. So much to my dismay when my hubby and I have said "no
thanks" to some people (and not just on this site)
people have gotten nasty and said some hateful things.
One single male actually went so far as to call me a , another
one said my husband must be controlling me, and another
couple, after us telling them kindly they just weren't ...
5 Comments, 175 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score |
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Some women can't take NO for an answer either... 6/12/2021
Ok, I want to tell you a little story. Its about a girl named
Sarah I met on this site. Her profile has since been deleted
so don't bother looking her up.
<br>
Anyway, a while back she sent me a message and we began to
e-mail back and forth. She seemed cool, had some interesting
view points, but was a bit scattered. Since I am not looking
for hook ups I regarded the entire ...
4 Comments, 355 Views,
16 Votes
,6.51 Score |
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swapping partner for a ! 6/17/2021
We recently had chat with 1 gut who was up to arrange a swap.
However, as the conversation panned out, it turned out
the person he was gonna bring was in fact gonna be a .
How could he expect us to agree to this exchange? His emotional
connection with this female was totally non-existant,
wheras me ands my partner have been together over 10 years.
Sometimes, the politeness of the answer should be ...
4 Comments, 161 Views,
12 Votes
,6.16 Score |
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Being polite doesn't always work 6/14/2020
We try to keep our "thanks but no thanks" message
polite and straight forward. But there are some people
who persist, thinking if they change the language or tone
of an I.M or message from previously sent one's that
will suddenly make us change our mind. It's annoying
and irritating! We're not rude people in general and
don't wanna be, but when pushed you get the ...
3 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score |
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Sometimes its hard 1/17/2020
No its not, just say im not into it
1 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score |
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"No thanks" from a sub. 7/15/2021
Being a sub there are people that think that means they can
just start messaging with demands like " fuck your
ass with a wine bottle now show me pics now!!"
and then when I respectfully say no thanks, they try to back
track or worse double down the demands. Problem with back
tracking is that they've already shown that they don't
respect the relationship and will abuse it. ...
5 Comments, 40 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score |
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No Thanks 2/17/2020
Telling someone no thanks is being nice. If said people
don't get the point, then it's on them what comes
next.
3 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score |
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Taking a break 6/16/2021
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our AdultFriendFinder account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex
with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter.
I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what
it was to feel passion instead of just ...
8 Comments, 262 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score |
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Just be honest 4/14/2020
I am not sure why it is so hard for people to just be honest
and say NO THANKS if they are not interested.
3 Comments, 45 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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stalkers on the internet 6/17/2021
ok how come you start talking to what apprears to be a normal
guy, and he turns into a freak. i started talking to this
guy who seem perfectly normal. we were talking about things
we do in and out of bed and what we want from our lives. the
next thing i know he was emailing me everyday. he told me
he wanted me to have his , and he even picked out names
for them. we'd talked for a week and ...
4 Comments, 564 Views,
35 Votes
,4.30 Score |
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Just say no 7/6/2020
I think its really easy. I guess some people think its not
polite or its an acceptable thing to leave others hanging.
I figure out of 100 interactions on line one meeting would
be good. The thing that is strange to me though is, why does
someone initiate a conversation, you have a good conversation
and then nothing. If you're not interested say so.
I will check in with people with a short ...
8 Comments, 63 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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Does that 1/24/2020
score you ?
1 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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Honestly 1/13/2020
Just be honest and truthful about everything and it will
go alot easier
1 Comments, 18 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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Blocking a person 1/24/2020
I know when you block a person you don't get their messages
and you don't see them online in chat/IMC but do they
still see you as being online or is it as if your not there
also?
1 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score |
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Points 1/16/2020
Yup, just one of those I need points posts
3 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score |
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Younger women 1/10/2020
Is it really that hard to respond to instant messages and
say sorry not interested in chatting or do women
just like the attention?
7 Comments, 78 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score |
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Points 12/26/2019
No thanks. Just need points
3 Comments, 26 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score |
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No thanks for sex 1/29/2020
There are many situation comes in which you can say no thanks
for sex As depend what is happens with your partner or you would
not like to meet with your partner or you had recently break
up with you partner and don't want to do sex and any o
e offer you for the saex but you refuse the same <br><br>
The reason is for that they you most like the that person
and that perosns real ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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When to Say No 1/12/2020
How many of you couples out there keep getting messages
from the same lonely guy, day in and day out? You have told
this person that you are not interested in them and they
just insisting to message you. So how do you get them to stop?
9 Comments, 67 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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Nope 1/23/2020
No points ha
4 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score |
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Why 1/8/2020
Why is it so hard for people say NO THANK OR NOT interested.
Why can't they just respond back with that simple reply.
7 Comments, 43 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score |
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Truth or excuses? 6/18/2021
In life we seem to make excuses for everything we do. We never
as a society or individual admit that we have serious flaws
that harm every other person in the world daily.
<br>
I encourage people to have sex since so many people say it
feels so wonderful. The interesting thing is... don't
you think our laws should prohibit people to have unprotected
sex? Many many people go out of ...
3 Comments, 13 Views,
28 Votes
,2.83 Score |
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Worst "no" 12/18/2019
What would be the worst eay someone could say no?
1 Comments, 42 Views,
26 Votes
,2.70 Score |
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21 Ways to “Give Good No" 1/27/2020
We are coming to that time of the year that is both blessed
and cursed with zillions of invitations. Here are some
that are in my email right now: Can you meet me for coffee
to help me with my book proposal? Will you bring a snack to
the 8th grade party on December 19th? Are you coming to our
housewarming party? Can you help with my ’s college
applications? Do you want to take the to see ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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No thanks 1/6/2020
Another No Thanks for just getting some points.
2 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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No thanks 12/19/2019
No thanks for for points
1 Comments, 25 Views,
20 Votes
,1.85 Score |
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adding a new article .. 5/30/2020
here i am, adding a new article ... a sad day ![](https://secureimage.securedataimages.com/images/common/chat/smilies/smile.gif)
3 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score |
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Uncut penis 6/29/2021
I am FRIGHTENED of non-circumcised members. They are heinous
looking as opposed to circumcised ones which as sleek and
functional. Why don't people circumcise their
anymore? If for nothing else, do it for their sex life. Do
other women find uncut ones disgusting?
20 Comments, 403 Views,
47 Votes
,0.41 Score |